Thursday, May 07, 2009

Prenatal - Womens Program - Thursday Pics


The McHouls have managed to live and work for two decades here. There are only a few others in this twenty + year club. When I think about the McHouls or the Ackermans or any of these "old timers" I am astonished at their endurance.

I sometimes find myself feeling nothing changes -- true and not true.

Beth manages to pull off a positive attitude almost 100% of the time. She tries and tries. I don't know how she does it - but I think it is very admirable. When I grow up I want to be just like her.

Bon Fet Jeronne!


We had a birthday party for Jeronne tonight ... she put on a fancy dress for the occasion and everyone had a blast. We almost never pull off a dinner where everyone sits at once - *that* was quite an accomplishment in and of itself. Troy and I usually prefer a zone defense at dinner time, where we guard as children eat. Tonight was a full court press.

Jeronne is taking off tomorrow for the weekend to go see family and friends.

We're very thankful to know her and are blessed immensely by her help with our home and our children. Each of our kids shared with her what she meant to them, they all did a great job expressing their love and gratitude.

BON FET JERONNE!

Horse People






Paige went for her trial lesson. They teach English riding, whatever that means. I know nothing about horses - I just know Paige has been interested for a long time. And I think having a fun thing to do this summer will be a positive thing for her. The little kids can take turns coming along and petting horses and watching. It was crazy to us that this possibility existed here! We learned there is more than one club to choose from too.

We purposefully chose the sweet, soft-spoken Haitian guy that speaks Creole, French and English to teach her trial lesson. We figured Paige would be happy to work in English or Creole.

We purposefully did not choose the teacher that speaks 90% French, even though he totally entertains us. He is over-the-top hyper and animated but very hard to understand. None of us speak French.

Her lesson was going well, she was having a blast., but about 3/4 of the way through the lesson the French guy stepped in to take over. It kind of bummed us out to see him walk over the other guys' teaching but in the end it did provide many laughs. He helped Paige with her posture by repeating over and over and over and over the word "straight" - only it sounded like this:



Troy is a good sport to grant my wish at mocking this poor man who will now never be photographed, named or shown on this blog.

Even we have limits.

(And yes, of course we know our accents sound funny when we attempt a second language too.)

Wednesday, May 06, 2009

(Not) More Awesomer

Yesterday Noah told us that one of his super-hero moves is "more awesomer" - we like that adjective and we're going with a twist on that line of thinking.

Today we have only three TIH tidbits ... and some random photos.

1. In the USA the big chains come along and crush the little guy. We've all watched Home Depot come to town and put the little corner Ace Hardware under. Well, we were pleasantly surprised to be given an opportunity to help the little guy down here. A man came to the gate and told us that a garbage truck would begin offering weekly service in our neighborhood for the first time. He said they would come twice weekly and he quoted a fair price. We like our curent garbage service but nodded and said "Dako, Merci" (ok-thanks). We were skeptical of the new offer and figured it would not be more awesomer. Afterall, we have no beef with our current service. Our current trash-removal provider showed up about two days later asking to speak to the gwo chef (big boss). Troy came down and within a minute he realized that the wheel-barrow, one man garbage removal system was worrying about his livelihood. Troy stopped him early in the speech and told him that we will be sticking with him. The big truck is not putting the wheel barrow out of business in our neighborhood, not if we can help it. Our hard working and reliable provider was THRILLED to learn he could count on our business.

    2. Frustration with Kids Club hit a new high for Miss Paige on Sunday. It turns out that when she reached out to a new group of kids, it made the Mom/Caretaker/Restavek Owner of the other kids angry enough that she did not allow her kids to come on Sunday. There is some sort of dispute between the two adult women, so the ridiculously not more awesomer attitude of Mom #1 caused six kids to be kept home on Sunday. That left Paige with three kids which messed up her plans for games and activities. We're unsure what our next move is. Something tells us it won't really play out in a way that makes sense to us.

3. Troy refuses to remove my stitches for me and therefore will force an encore meeting with Dr. Cartoon Lady sometime soon. I am ticked off but he has already preemptively informed Paige that she cannot remove my stitches. I have not asked Beth yet, but I will. Dr. C.L. is not more awesomer than any other person with a scissors and two hands.


It is Wednesday already. Forcast is looking a lot like it looks every day in May.
12 pm - 93°F Feels Like102°F
So Stay cool and try to be more awesomer.

Tuesday, May 05, 2009

C’est La Vie


Written By Troy:

Hope and Phoebe (and Gracie that we recently met) have two older sisters still here in Haiti that were raised by Beanne. Their names are Joanne and Bedline.

Joanne has given birth to two children and they were both placed in an orphanage for adoption due to the family’s struggles financially. She is currently on bed rest after miscarrying twins.

Bedline has given birth to three children.

The last time I visited their home only the youngest baby was present. I asked Beanne where the other two children were – afraid I already knew the answer. Beanne's grand-son and grand-daughter have now also been placed in an orphanage.

Bedline had mentioned this possibility in the past and I did my best to discourage her – we talked about the issues of bonding and attachment as her children are old enough to experience the deep pain of abandonment. She seemed to understand and I thought she had decided to keep them with her since they had been around for my last few visits.

After her third baby was born, though, the three women decided they could only provide for one extra mouth to feed. The two older children were left at the orphanage. Hope and Phoebe have nieces and nephews that are now a second generation of children being relinquished to an orphanage. My heart grieves for those children and wonders about what they are going through even now. I know at least one of them has a family in the US working on adopting him – and for that I am glad – but I struggle with questions about what is best for these children.

It is an odd thing to wonder about considering that we have been blessed to be a part of adoptions in many ways. I consider myself very pro-adoption, but in this case, seeing firsthand the experience of this family I find myself wondering and wishing there were other ways to keep families together. I know it would be better for these two children. At least I think I know. Actually, I am not sure at all.

When I learned that these two had also been placed – I looked at it from every possible angle and had a lengthy discussion with Beanne trying to determine ways to make it work for them to keep those kids at home. We’ve been actively trying to help them to break this cycle of unplanned pregnancies and abandoned children for years. Apparently we haven’t made any progress.

When I had exhausted all of my ideas and hopes of reuniting this part of the family – Beanne made a haunting statement that is very telling about the condition of far too many families living in poverty –

She said: “That is life in Haiti. A mother can’t stay with her children.”

Monday, May 04, 2009

Real Hope for Haiti

There are tons of really good people doing really good things in this country. Of course there are also questionable people doing questionable things ... but we leave that stuff to God to sort through. We stay committed to helping encourage the work of good people and to being good friends where good friends are in short supply.

We love these two ladies and their Dad. We are hoping to witness the day their dream of a new clinic and rescue center in the Cazale area is realized. If you want to give directly to the fund that will eventually allow them to build please go here. (A paypal donation button is at the bottom of the home page.) When you are praying, you can pray for Licia Betor and Lori Moise and big Zach and their families. (They are addressing the great need mentioned in the previous post.)

If you have the time, check this video out... another person doing great things in Haiti, Corrigan Clay, put this together for the Zachary family.

Real Hope For Haiti from Corrigan Clay on Vimeo.

posted with permission ...


Haiti Waits

Tito is four years old. That’s just a guess, as I didn’t speak Creole, and he didn’t speak English, so I never got to ask. His only article of clothing was a dirty red and white shirt with only one button. It was much too big, and he wore it like a robe, flowing behind him as he ran barefoot through the dirt.

It’s hard to tell what Tito thought of us – Americans in Haiti – but he followed us like a shadow. He studied the nurses handing out pills. He listened to the malnourished babies cry as they were weighed. He peered over my shoulder as I cut into the face of an old woman, trying to drain an abscess brought on by decades without dental care.

At the end of the day, we passed him a bit of candy, and what he did with that candy is one of my favorite memories. We watched in amazement as he broke it into pieces and shared it with the crowd of children accumulating in our wake. This little boy – who had nothing – did not hesitate to share.

I can’t remember that Tito ever said a word, but I’ll never forget him.

"For me, an area of moral clarity is: you're in front of someone who's suffering and you have the tools at your disposal to alleviate that suffering or even eradicate it, and you act." --Paul Farmer

In my day job, I work as an emergency room doctor in the Twin Cities. I get to come home to a beautiful little house with two barking and eternally excited dogs. I try to be the best husband and father I can, and I live a comfortable life. Sure, there are always too many bills and never enough free time, but life is pretty good. Sometimes, though, it’s hard to remember that the world doesn’t end at the corners of my yard. Sometimes, falling asleep on my couch with my little girl curled in my lap, I need to force myself to remember that there are those out there who are cold and hungry.

Several years ago I received a call from Dr. Christopher Buresh. He wanted to know if I was willing to go to Haiti and see patients in a mobile clinic. Chris and I had gone to medical school together at the University of Iowa, and afterwards he had gone to North Carolina to train in pediatrics. In North Carolina, Chris had been introduced to the Children’s Nutrition Program of Haiti and had begun periodically traveling with them on medical missions.

Phone calls from Chris always result in something interesting, from ice climbing in Washington to scaling desert cliffs in Nevada to running 125K races through the Canadian Rockies. An invitation like this promised to be much too interesting to pass up. As it turned out, it was that and more.

Haiti is an easy target for mission work, but somehow manages to get perpetually overlooked. It’s certainly not glamorous, and many Americans are just a bit afraid of this place that brings to mind Voodoo and poverty. Just 90 minutes out of Miami, you find yourself in a place with no running water, no electricity, no community sanitation…the list goes on and on.

The heat can be oppressive, and the mosquitoes can leave you with things considerably nastier than they might be in the United States. Disease is rampant, from malaria to tuberculosis to typhoid to intestinal worms. Some of the diseases are quite exotic, such as elephantiasis, but most are quite simple, such as kwashiorkor. It sounds fancy, but kwashiorkor is just a technical term for the changes you see in a person who is starving
to death. You see a lot of that in Haiti.

Much of the country has virtually no medical system, and there is a massive vacuum only a few are trying to fill. Our groups and the CNP operate out of Leogane, a smallish city on the southern peninsula of Haiti. The international airport is in Port-au-Prince, about 20 miles east of Leogane, a journey of two to four hours if you happen to have a car. Most Haitians travel by tap-tap, a sort of taxi. We clamber into Jeeps and Dodge tap-taps, typically brightly painted pick-up trucks belching black smoke and struggling to haul cargos of 20 people or more. Leogane has a hospital, but it’s been closed for nearly a year now. Even when it was open, services were few and far between. We fight about universal health care here in the United States while roughly 75 percent of Haitian births are unattended by any medical professional whatsoever.

Our mobile clinics will range out into the countryside and the mountains, sometimes visiting villages that have not seen a health care professional in decades.

When in Haiti, we run mobile clinics. We guess at what we might need, carry all the supplies we can stuff into duffel bags and treat whatever we can by clinical diagnosis only.We have no X-rays, no laboratory, no specialist to consult.

There are sometimes up to a dozen of us on these trips. The groups are eclectic, as we take anybody willing to help. Our only requirement to participate is that you pay your own way, as every dime we have is for the Haitians. We bring the obligatory doctors and nurses, but it gets more interesting with handymen and art teachers, high school students and clergy.

We usually stay in country for a week, and by that time we’ve given away all the medications we managed to carry down. Our supplies and equipment are hauled down as luggage, paying whatever extra fees the airlines demand. Most of our supplies are medications donated or procured at cost from companies catering to medical missions such as ours. Relying on donations leads to an unpredictable and sometimes amusing inventory, but we’re happy to work with whatever we can get. We’ve ended up with 90-lb. bags of prenatal vitamins and butt paste for babies who don’t wear diapers. In some way or another, it all ends up having value in the end.

Running a mobile clinic is a remarkable task. Our mobile clinics will range out into the countryside and the mountains, sometimes visiting villages that have not seen a health care professional in decades. Clinic sites are chosen based on the locations perceived to have the most need.

On the way to these clinics, we sit on duffel bags bursting with medications and pray as the Jeeps teeter around the mountainous countryside. Traffic can include chickens, school children and donkeys pulling carts. As it is in most developing countries, driving is unquestionably the most dangerous aspect of the whole experience. The rules of the road are unwritten and open to individual interpretation but seem to be intuitive to the natives. Skirting around the occasional burned-out wreck can play havoc with your nerves.

As if all of this weren’t enough, reaching a clinic sometimes involves pushing the trucks out of innumerable mud holes and hiking through them. The occasional clinic even involves an overnight hike, as there are plenty of places in Haiti where the roads just don’t go.We will see patients wherever space is available, often in a village school or church.

News of our arrival spreads quickly, passed by mouth and radio, and frequently hundreds will show up. They will quietly wait in the sun all day, dressed in their Sunday best to tell us of their ailments, clutching their payment of a few cents.

There was a time when our clinics were free, but we learned that free services aren’t valued in Haiti. So now we collect our symbolic fee and turn it over to the hospital at the end of the week. Once registered, patients are escorted to a provider who will try to determine what can be offered. The process is frequently heartbreaking, as there are many patients whose needs exceed our capabilities and many needs that can’t be fixed with medications. There are no oncologists for the tumors, only aspirin for the strokes, and no pills at all for hunger pangs. I struggle knowing that to many of my Haitian patients I am terribly inadequate.

Most every Haitian is malnourished to some degree, so all get vitamins. Their nutrition is made even worse by parasitic intestinal worms ubiquitous there, so we treat everyone for these as well. Those with chronic illnesses, such as diabetes and high blood pressure, receive a three-month supply of pills and a prayer.

Elderly men and women plagued with arthritis get Tylenol. Babies riddled with scabies get rubbed down by the nurses with a cream that will hopefully stop the itching. Every child with a sore throat gets antibiotics, a practice that would be quickly condemned in the United States, as undoubtedly many of them are viral. But in Haiti a strep throat can lead to rheumatic heart disease, as there are no pediatricians to follow up on patients’ conditions the next week. There are no cardiac surgeons to save these children with rheumatic fever from damaged valves and heart failure. At the end of they day, some patients just get a smile and a hug and a terribly unfair admonishment … eat more.

Recent years have been particularly unkind to Haiti. A typical Haitian family earns a little more than $400 annually, less than the airlines charge us to come and go. This breaks down to roughly $1.12 per day with which to feed and clothe their children, much less pay for school and other needs. Multiple hurricanes swept over the island in 2008 and flooded the lowlands.

Sanitation declined even more while both hunger and disease have seen sharp increases. The global economic crisis has produced inflation in the cost of food staples such as rice and beans, contributing further to the problems of malnutrition. Reports circulate in Western media of desperate Haitians eating things such as dirt cookies. I don’t know if this is true, but I don’t find it hard to believe.

And yet, despite the innumerable hardships, I have not found a Haitian who felt the need for pity. They are an amazing people, vibrant and joyful and grateful for the small things in life. They love their children, care for their elders and are quick with a smile. I always leave Haiti feeling that Haitians have given me more than I have brought to them, and I always return wondering why it has been so long. In many ways, I think that we all could learn quite a lot in Haiti.

Our hope is that in making a deeper impact, the population of these villages will be healthy enough to devote themselves to addressing other needs and perhaps begin to make tiny steps out of the poverty cycle.

The overwhelming need in Haiti has prompted Dr. Buresh and me to try to establish a medical mission of our own. We envision a different paradigm from what we have seen and hope to begin taking groups of our own as early as June 2009.We would like to focus on a few villages and visit them at least twice a year (if not more). By doing this, we can provide year-round medications to people with chronic illnesses. We hope that we can do a better job of keeping a small population a bit healthier.

Our hope is that in making a deeper impact, the population of these villages will be healthy enough to devote themselves to addressing other needs and perhaps begin to make tiny steps out of the poverty cycle. Perhaps to some, we can begin to make a real difference.

We recognize that this will be an incredible challenge, and perhaps it won’t work out the way that we want it to. But failure to try is not an option for us. And so we struggle with the politics of establishing our little group. We look forward to begging for funds in an economically crippled America. We will ask people facing layoffs to use vacation time to work and sweat with us in the Caribbean. We will go and do everything we can, knowing that it will be far too little. And we will try not to be discouraged.

As my daughter and my dogs jockey for position on my lap, I think about these things. And I know that Dr. Buresh and others are thinking about them, too. As the snow swirls outside my home in the Minnesota winter, I wonder about Tito. How is he? And will I find him when I return?

About the author: Joshua White graduated from Luther College and received his M.D. from the University of Iowa. He is a member of Cohort 16 in the Opus College of Business Health Care UST MBA program. You can contact him at jwhitemd1@hotmail.com.

Sunday, May 03, 2009

Things that would be odd elsewhere- but not here

  • 1am- Get up, see street light on, dance around for joy that the city has decided to provide some power
  • 7am- Pour Coffee, strain out two bugs, drink and enjoy anyway
  • 9am- Sweat through back of shirt before church begins
  • 12pm- Driving home from church, pass 100% nude adult man standing completely still as if in a trance in center of the busiest road in Port au Prince
  • 12pm- Offer him a ride - no - not really
  • 1pm - Go to Beth & John's for ham that was brought into Haiti in a carry on suitcase
  • 3pm- Put out icecream and watch as adult people act like vultures that have not been fed in weeks, especially john mchoul who was 1st in line for dessert and went to the hallway to hide while he ate it (like someone might take it away from him?)
  • 6pm- Decide it's popcorn for dinner tonight - make announcement - the crowd cheers as if they have just been given a great gift

Saturday, May 02, 2009

Saturday ...

Heartline/Maranatha has two adoptive families in this weekend. The Pearsons are using the apartment to spend time with their boys. Jason and Sarah Hyatt are staying at our house while they are here visiting Naomi. They were on a team with the Iveys in May 2008, and are one of three families from that team that are now adopting from Haiti. (Photo: Naomi and Sarah)Hope 7 yrs old - Phoebe 2.5 yrs old - Grace 9 yrs old
The first reunion of three sisters!
Hope and Phoebe got to meet their big sister Grace last night. It was moving for the two adoptive moms to see them all together ... and the birth-mom was of course beaming and totally thrilled too. If Troy felt anything, you'll have to ask him what ... he got stuck interpreting so maybe it was less awesome for him. We got to celebrate Gracie's 9th Birthday with her with cake and singing, it was a great night. The three girls have such similar voices and mannerisms and we think Phoebe and Grace look a lot alike.It was an honor and a privilege to allow their birth mother the gift of seeing them all in one place ... thanks to Stephanie for bringing Grace back to Haiti and making this possible for all of us.

Friday, May 01, 2009

Numbers



  • 1 - dance party on Mom and Dad's bed thursday night
  • 5- the number of gang signs hidden in that video
  • 3- the number of kids that melted down before bedtime
  • 50- Ultrasounds done today at Women's program
  • 8- the time we're taking Paige to check out the horse place friday morning
  • 1- the number of older biological sisters visiting from Washington that Hope and Phoebe get to meet for the first time ever friday night
  • 22- the number of times we have tried to reach the birth mom of the three girls to tell her we want her to come with us for this amazing reunion (edit to add: we finally got a hold of her a bit ago - she is freaking out excited ... can you imagine?!)
  • 4- chunks of tara skin in jars delivered to the pathologist today
  • 26 - more days till the results come back
  • 1- appointment with cartoon Dr. Edna missed today
  • 6 - the number of visitors arriving friday
  • 2- the number of visitors staying here for the weekend
  • 4 - day weekend for the kids - hurrah for Haitian holidays!
  • 0 - cable tv, any tv, amusement parks, any parks, shopping, or chuck E cheese - it matters not. we make fun. *that* is what we do here people.
  • 2004- the year I started trying to upload this video- our internet is that insanely slow
  • 0 things left to say

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Awakening, Sara Groves



Dress down your pretty faith. Give me something real.
Leave out the thee and thou and speak to me now.
Speak to my pain and confusion.
Speak through my fears and my pride.
Speak to the part of me that knows I'm something deep down inside.

I know that I am not perfect, but compare me to most,
In a world of hurt and a world of anger I think I'm holding my own.
And I know that you said there is more to life.
And I know I am not satisfied.
But there are mornings I wake up and I'm just thankful to be alive.

I've known now, for quite a while, that I am not whole.
I've remembered the body and the mind,
But dissected my soul.
Now something inside is awakening,
Like a dream I once had and forgot.
And it's something I'm scared of
And something I don't want to stop.

And I woke up this morning and realized that Jesus is not a portrait.
Where stained glass windows or hymns or the tradition that surrounds us.
And I thought it would be hard to believe in
But it's not hard at all.
To believe I've sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God.

And He's not asking me to change in my joy for martyrdom
He's asking to take my place.
To stand in the gap that I have formed
With His real, and His sweet, and His real amazing grace.
And it's not just a sign or a sacrament.
It's not just a metaphor for love.
The blood is real and it's not just a symbol of your faith.

So leave out the thee and thou and speak now.

People are dying to get in here ...





There is saying in Haiti: "The dead bury the living".
Funerals are big business. This is the Jacmel cemetery.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Wear Your Sunscreen!

Gross photos ahead ...
Troy held my hand and kept reminding me to breathe more slowly. Only once did I nearly launch into panic-attack mode. I pretended to be all chill about it last night - but I lied.

"Dr. Edna" made us snicker and squeeze each others' hands with her quirky, animated personality. She showed up 35 minutes after the time she told me to be there. She smoked for the first portion of our appointment and she took about four phone calls with the scalpel in her hand. She waved her hands around chatting while intermittently stitching ... telling Troy about her kids attending University in France.

After I was finished she told me the cost. I asked her if she meant U.S.D.? Yep. I only let one tear drop in her presence while Troy told me "you are worth it". Time will tell if I am.

When she asked what time I could come get my stitches checked I said "What is your earliest appointment?" Her response, and I quote: "Oh that is not going to be convenient for you."
Huh? Uh. Ya, that *is* the best time for me. But she told me that 10:30 was the most convenient for me.

We learned that *we* would be responsible to bring the pieces of my skin to the pathologist on the other end of town. That is TIH to the max. I should know better by now - but it surprised me. We did not have time to do that today so my hunks of skin are sitting in the kitchen on top of the refrigerator until Thursday. That is totally normal, right?!? Thursday is the next day we'll have time to go deal with PAP traffic and find this pathologist person. Until then, this tasty little treat, strategically perched, is helping curb all appetites at our house:

Let's review: wear your sunscreen. KIDS - this means you!
One last thing. We get these emails in Haiti that are "Warden Reports". They usuually tell of possible trouble in Port or planned protests. Tonight's report:

U.S. Embassy Port-au-Prince issued the following Warden Message on April 28, 2009:

This Warden Message is to inform all Americans living and traveling in Haiti about the recent outbreak of swine flu in Mexico and the United States. At this time there are no confirmed cases of swine flu in Haiti.

We're all stocked up in the disease department. Sorry about your swine flu, America - but we're breathing easier down here.

Faces



Monday, April 27, 2009

Of the (extremely) random variety



[Photos from our drive]

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"The Bible’s purpose is not so much to show you how to live a good life. The Bible’s purpose is to show you how God’s grace breaks into your life against your will and saves you from the sin and brokenness otherwise you would never be able to overcome… religion is ‘if you obey, then you will be accepted’. But the Gospel is, ‘if you are absolutely accepted, and sure you’re accepted, only then will you ever begin to obey’. Those are two utterly different things." -Tim Keller
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Tomorrow morning a Doctor in Haiti that reminds me exactly of Edna Mode from The Incredibles movie will be fixing up my long-ignored sun-damaged skin.

I make most of my decisions by indecision, and this is no exception. I have made and canceled two dermatologist appointments in the last year. For some reason today was the day that I forced myself to go see someone. Oh - yeah, Troy refusing to let me come back to the car without seeing her might have helped a little bit.

I loved when she chewed me out for being fair skinned with blue eyes. And then she reminded me that all the idiotic tanning I did in 8th grade was now coming back to haunt me. Well duh. I know that. I've known for a year! We used to skip out of North View Junior High around noon to go lay on tin foil in Lisa's back yard ... I earned this visit with the knife tomorrow.

Because this is Haiti and because I am stubborn I am letting her do the ones on my chest and torso and not the one on my face. Once the pathology report comes back and we check the quality of her work- then I will see about allowing a cartoon character to cut on my face.

Annie had a rough day too. She had immunizations and took a rather uncomfortable back-seat nap.
When I finished up with Dr. Edna Mode I came to a car with four mostly happy kids, one happy Daddy - and this gift! :)



Switching gears ...
I know non-runners hate running talk. But I love it. Love to talk running. Counting the minutes till Beth is back so we can get on the road together Wednesday. I liked what Ryan said so I am pasting in the end of his recent post-marathon report here. { Go here for full post. }

I guess you know where this is going. But, it’s sad that we don’t see this atmosphere in the Christian church. For 26 miles - for 3 hours and 50 minutes and 54 seconds, all I heard was cheering. People never looked at me and said, “You need to run faster!” or “Your stride is wrong!” In fact, they lied to me a lot and said, “Hey, you’re looking great!” I hurt, but there they were. There are people who are hurting in the world today, and what do we do? Nothing most of the time. They run by us, limping, wondering when they’re going to make it to the finish line, and we just stand there, silent. Some people might not be hurting, they might just be tired, and we don’t say a word. In fact, we look past them for someone we know. We hold up our sign for our friends, but for that other person, chasing the same goal as our friend, we leave them alone. Maybe they’re not hurting, or tired. Maybe they’re looking super strong. How much stronger could they be?

Paul continually speaks in his letters of encouraging one another. In fact, in Romans 12, he references this as a spiritual gift. Every single Christian you know is running a race. Will you encourage them today?

The Weekend

Kids Club Sunday 4/26/09
Saturday Pics:




We had an unsually fun weekend here. Friday night we caught up on all of our downloaded LOST and Office episodes. For once I stayed awake and Paige was the one to bomb out mid-episode.

Saturday Paige went to watch her friend play soccer not too far from our house while Troy and I did something we almost never do. We voluntarily left the house with five kids. Annie stayed home with Jeronne. (Annie got to be the only one to leave with Troy and I the day before.) We took Hope, Phoebe, Noah and Lyd to watch Isaac play baseball at school. They sang Christmas carols for the entire ride- very odd!

We also grabbed groceries. The carts were filled with kids, drastically limiting the food we could buy - but everyone got out of the house and *that* is an accomplishment! Saturday evening we grilled steaks that came to Haiti all the way from Colorado USA ... they were amazing- thanks Lisa! :)

Sunday Troy went to church to sing, while the rest of us managed small children at home. In the afternoon Paige had a successful Kids Club. It has been frustrating for her because so often the kids will say they are coming and they will either show up two hours late or not show up at all. Other times Gorge will say they have to work and cannot come. She has had trouble getting any momentum going with those challenges but yesterday the kids were here for about three hours and had a great time. I sit in the house listening to Paige and giggling at the amazing way she can command the attention of that many kids (and TWO cultures/languages) - it is fun to see/hear her in action. She is done with school for the summer at the end of May and is thinking maybe then she can switch the day of her club.

We're anxious to check out a place where Paige can take riding lessons. I'm hoping to take her there Friday to scope out the joint. She has had an interest in horses for a long time. We just found out there are actually places to do riding lessons here. I don't spend a lot of time feeling guilty about it, but it does really stink how little we can offer our kids here for recreation and entertainment. There are not many clubs, teams, competitive sports, choirs, libraries, musems, bands, places to go, things to see, etc, etc. We make our own fun at home. For the most part that works out really well for all of us ... but there are times when we wish for a little variety - an outlet. Paige is pumped about this possibility - so are we.

Lately Noah has an extreme interest in helping with the little girls. He gets mad if I go in to get Lydie or Phoebe without him in the morning. After we got Lydie up and dressed today Noah was loving on her and kissing her and he kept saying, "You're such a little o-gurt Lyd - such a little o-gurt -- huh?! huh!? Lyd... aren't you?!? -- yes you are!" I finally asked him if he was calling her yogurt? He looked at me like I was very, very dim. He said, "NO Ma - O-GURT ... you know, like Shrek! Don't you see her hair?!" Oh. Okay. Ogre. Got it.

The week ahead is filling quickly. I never assume that a schedule means anything will actually take place - (TIH) but by glancing at the plan it could be an exciting and busy week. Friday night something exciting is happening for Phoebe and Hope - super exciting. But if I say it, I'll jinx it (TIH) so we'll wait until Saturday to fill in the details.

It's Monday. Bring it.