We went with the whole crew to campus tonight to celebrate with Britt and Chris and the Baylor Bears as they prepare for Homecoming tomorrow. They had a giant (and sometimes scary with wind gusts) bonfire and pep rally with rides and entertainment. Saturday there is a parade in the morning. The football team is going to have to get it done without our support because we cannot stomach the $230 it would cost to bring these lards to the game. Plus, this tribe would have a twelve minute attention span for the game and I would be furious about the money spent on twelve minutes of entertainment. As a result everyone would say how crabby Mom is and the day would be ruined. Staying home seems so much easier on our relationships.
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Phoebe refused to meet the big mascot bear, she hates that part of American culture as proven by a melt down over the Easter bunny last spring. She's no dummy. Why trust giant stuffed animals when you have no previous experience telling you that is a safe move? Both girls were tired eighteen minutes after we got there. Good times.
We laughed at how we often find cultural practices in Haiti to be "different" (not necessarily different better) and then realized that a few thousand people dressed in green and yellow were gathered around to watch a giant pile of wood pallets burning and putting their hands in the air in the shape of a bear claw while yelling "sic em" in unison. Who is weird now?
While our physical selves were standing on one the most beautiful and manicured campuses in Texas, our heads and hearts are with our friends and families in Haiti. Not to be Debbie Downer (okay, that is a lie - I am going to be Debbie Downer) but it is pretty uncomfortable to stand on that immaculate campus and realize that not very far away people are dying for lack of clean water. The day brought a confusing combination of prayers, tears, frustration and feelings of helplessness. We asked a Haitian friend to be sure and talk to Hope/Phoebe and Isaac's moms (Isaac immediately expressed concern for them when he heard) and we basically begged Geronne to leave the village and go hide out at our house.
We don't know that anything except fervent prayer makes sense from Texas ...
God, we need a miracle to stop the spread of this contagious disease/bacteria. Be with all those working to help the sick, increase their energy and give them endurance and protection from illness. Please Lord, spare the beautiful souls in Haiti from more pain and loss and misery. Lift them out of this darkness. Amen.



7 comments:
Thanks for updates on the cholera outbreak. My parents are closely watching too as they were planning on returning very shortly. They also have a daughter in an orphanage in Dessalines that they are still waiting to bring home to Canada.
You comparison of American and Haitian culture is both really funny and sad. I think anyone who has spent time living and working in a developing country lives that contrast. Hearts forever torn and confused ;)
God bless you as you take each step of faith.
Praying for your friends and family in Haiti. I am sure it is hard not to be there with them.
Thanks - living in the gap between the two places makes us "not fun" to many people who liked us more when we didn't care about this stuff and did't carry it with us wherever we go - but I'd rather know and I'd rather be burdened by it than to not know/care.
Now that we have seen, we are responsible. I believe that.
So excited to go home. Barring something unknown, ten weeks from now we'll be there.
Thanks for reading and encouraging. It matters and helps.
AMEN!!! :)
loving God, Loving Haiti!
So, totally off topic--IS JOHN MCHOUL WELCHING on his promise to shave his head? I see the money for the hospital has been raised. I see no evidence that the long locks are gone. I think we need an explaination or a timeline or something. We did our part.
Terri U.
Amen, indeed.
I read your blog (and other Haiti blogs) for many reasons, and I thought I'd mention to you that a major reason I read yours is the joy it gives me when you write about your children. Lydia's comments about the scary cockroach and covering her ears will make me chuckle all day.
I do care deeply about Haiti -- and I respond to requests for donations and am considering ways to do more. But I must also thank you for your wonderful stories about your kids. I hope that you don't mind that a complete stranger in Boston takes such joy in them (and is also deeply moved by your writings about children's lives, adoption, disruption, loss, bravery -- all of it).
--Nancy in Boston
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