
Since we started writing in late 2005 I have always really enjoyed blogging. It has proven to be a great way to preserve memories, communicate with friends, family and strangers and vent and process some of the odd and difficult things. It if fun to share the silly kid things and it helps to process the rest in writing.
When I click on an old post from '06 or even '08 I am amazed at how faded the memories have become already. We're very thankful to have this written record for ourselves and our kids to look back on someday. Blogging is also free therapy and we don't want to lose our therapist. :)
Having said all of that I still often wonder if my ego is in check. I want to be sure blogging is not something I do for the wrong reasons. I *never* want it to be - look at me, I am kind of a big deal . We don't believe that or want to come across that way. I pray we do not.
Sometimes the encouragement provided is hugely important but I wonder if it would be better to not rely on the internet for encouragement. I am unsure. I only know that I don't ever want this outlet to be what defines us or builds us up. It is always a little odd to us to hear that our blog is liked - We're humbled and thankful that you find something worth reading here.
For the next three weeks we've decided to dial back our time on the internet. While it is the single source of outside entertainment at night, and the main way we communicate with loved ones, we still feel the need to re-group and spend a bit less time on it. The work, the running, the kids ... they all seem to be demanding more right now. Less writing, less reading, and time better spent.
The plan for now is to go to one written post a week (not sure which day) possibly with a few photos as filler in between the weekly written updates. The reasons above are key, but also important ...
Paige took on a special project a few weeks ago. She left earlier today for three weeks with family in Texas and Minnesota. We want to take over her incredibly worthy project while she is away. I am so in love with Paige's heart and have seen some big things in her life this year. She is brave and strong. She has touched and inspired us (and others) with the love and commitment she has shown and we want to continue her work for her. It's a full-time gig that requires much attention and we want to be fully engaged with it. To do that we need to write less often and reduce our time on-line.
(And right now the internet is so spotty and slow, it's very convenient timing!)
Thanks again for following along, supporting with prayer and encouragement, and caring for Haiti. We hope you're enjoying a fabulous summer.
Tara & Troy and Tribe
A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones. He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise. He who ignores discipline despises himself, but whoever heeds correction gains understanding. The fear of the LORD teaches a man wisdom, and humility comes before honor.
Proverbs 15:30-33




11 comments:
I will miss your daily posts but I truly understand.
Well, I do NOT think you are a big deal. In fact, I find you pathetic.
Does that help?
Good luck with the project. We'll miss you in the meantime.
Erin & the gang
Kristin says they have been without EDH to charge their batteries and can now totally understand why you need fans running at night. I will miss your frequent insights and smiles that your blog provides. :-)
If Paige's project is what I think it is, yes it is a full time job--but what a huge difference it seems to be making.
I so understand and have done that myself! I needed to evaluate why I was blogging and what I wanted to get out of it! I think there was some unhealthy stuff in there! Anyway it is always good to take time off! Enjoy your July!
Aaaaaarrrrgggggh! Christine is moving to Texas and the Livesay's are limiting their posting!! things are so bleak I may have to spend time with my OWN CHILDREN!
;-)
Please don't stop your writing! I find your posts so grounding and encouraging!
Rose
good luck with this plan. ive been trying to stop for a long time. it just doesn't work and it seems its not my idea when it continues anyway.
May you have more resolve than I. btw, you are still may favorite blog.
blessings,
Jeff
I too have questioned my motives for blogging as well as if it has eternal impact. I have taken breaks, gone private...
One thing I enjoy about blogging is that it is a picture journal for my small kids. Since I neither journal nor scrapbook anymore, I plan to make my blog into a book someday.
As far as your blog, I just want you to know that God has used it in my life immensely. We grew to love Haiti through an orphanage started by people at the church we attended while my hub finished seminary, and hoped to adopt. When they decided to follow the old laws, adoption stopped being our main focus, but we still love and pray for Haiti, and try to help ministries there. You, more than anyone else, have given me a real picture of the country and the people, hope for the children, and specifics to pray for.
Enjoy your break, however long from blogging, but know that your words have mattered.
i'm not quitting or trying to stop -- I am just spending three weeks writing/sharing less so I can pay better attention to kids ... there are a lot of them. :)
Have fun with your kids, tara :)
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