Thursday, June 17, 2010

Safe

Family One - Just moved into one of the roughest areas of their city with known drug activity and higher crime rates - Building relationships in their neighborhood in Texas.

Safe?

Family Two- He quit his long time job as missions pastor at a mega-church to work full time in an impoverished neighborhood in North Carolina acting as a surrogate Dad to many fatherless children. Each week on several occasions he and his wife open their home to allow kids a place for fellowship, biblical teaching, and a place to rest and be loved.

Safe?

Family Three- He was a senior pastor of a medium sized Baptist church for many years. He quit his paying secure job with benefits to work with the broken, hurting, homeless and lost in a central Texas RV-park.

Safe?

Family Four- Uncertain of exactly where they should go, they are preparing to investigate a full-time ministry role in Peru and have sold many of their earthly belongings in preparation for the move. Safe?

The safest place to be is in God's will.


We once believed that this meant no harm would come to us or our family if we were at least attempting to follow Jesus to the best of our ability. These days that is seeming pretty shallow, wrong, and fairly self-centered. Why should it be easy and where did we get that cock-eyed idea anyway?

Things happen. There are challenges. Darkness attacks.

We're slowly learning that He heals, that He turns things intended for evil into things He can and does use for good, but mostly in the battle against darkness and injustice there are no easy pathways of 100% guaranteed protection ... because this is war and war is not without cost. In truth we've come to a place of recognition that our safety is not something we should cling to so tightly.

Does this mean we are never fearful?
No.
We experience seasons of doubt and fear. We fear losing our children in Haiti. I find myself spinning tales in my mind of the horrible way I might lose one of them. I wonder how awful it will be to know that my choice to live in a place without great medical care could ultimately result in a death. At times it makes me want to tuck-tail and run back to a place I perceive as safe. But in my rational mind I know that I could lose them anywhere and at anytime - and that sometimes in order to follow Christ - increased risk and uncertainty will be necessary - and possibly even required.

I want to learn to be less fearful. I desire to be wise but not necessarily "safe". I want to believe that my friends who are walking away from their safety-nets will be provided for in miraculous ways. I want to trust fully in my Father's ability to get me through whatever the future holds; the mountains, the valleys, the good, the bad, through war or darkness.

From Radical - David Platt writes -


Jesus told them, "Go to great danger, and let it be said of you what people would say of sheep wandering into the middle of wolves. They're crazy! They're clueless! They have no idea what kind of danger they are getting into!" This is what it means to be my disciple.
We don't think like this. We say things such as, "The safest place to be is in the center of God's will." We think, if it's dangerous, God must not be in it. If it's risky, if it's unsafe, if it's costly, it must not be God's will. But what if these factors are actually the criteria by which we determine something IS God's will? What if we began to look at the design of God as the most dangerous option before us? What if the center of God's will is in reality the most unsafe place for us to be?



13 comments:

Sarah said...

Well, now I'm crying. This resonated so very deeply with me. It's time for my family to quit being safe- been there, done that and quite honestly it is sucking the life out of me. I hope I always remember how awful it felt to be safe when I'm faced with the cost of leaving it behind. I'll most certainly be buying Radical- sounds amazing. Thanks for your words.

Mama D.'s Dozen said...

Just read Radical in the past couple of weeks. Love it! My husband will be starting a sermons series based on it, this week.

We have lived in so many radical ways for the past 28 years of our marriage. We have encouraged our young adult children to live radically ... and they have. We have had adult children living all over the world, sometimes in very "unsafe" circumstances and situations. When people ask me, "Aren't you worried for your children?" I honestly answer, "Well, I figure they could get killed in a car accident if they were living at home." That's how I have parented for many years ... releasing my children to the Lord, for HIS purpose.

A year ago, with 6 children still at home, my husband quit his "safe and secure" teaching job. He gave up a secure (although, not large) salary. He gave up health insurance for his family. He gave up his retirement account. Why? Because God called him to move to a little tiny island to minister to a very small congregation. Has it been easy? No. Have we had to trust the Lord in BIG ways? Absolutely. Would we trade it for anything? Absolutely not!

Walking the path that the Lord calls us to walk may not be easy ... it may not be "safe" ... it may not provide worldly "benefits" ... but it is the ONLY place that my husband and I want to walk.

Praising Jesus for the CRAZY and RADICAL life that HE has called us to!!!

Laurel
mama of a dozen
mama of 4 missionaries
mama of an army boy
mama of a navy boy

A Stone Gatherer said...

So true! My husband and I have been talking about this very thing with the Yonkers going to Haiti with the kids. I told him it doesn't matter the dangers. Being obedient to the call is most important and no matter what it is the "safest place" because you are where your supposed to be. Bad things still can happen, but God is sovereign. Wonderful post that many should read!

Kristie, the Chapter Two Manmi said...

Family Five -- They were a typical family in a safe American city who gave up their jobs, sold their house and SUV, and moved to Haiti to be a friend to her people and show God's love however they can.

(Ummm...my best attempt at the facts after following your blog for a few years).

I am deeply grappling many things lately, including the pursuit of comfort and materialism. I want David Platt's book. You might like Mere Churchianity by the late Michael Spencer. Last night, I read "You don't just leave your old life behind once. You leave it behind every morning, every day" (when you follow Jesus).

Thanks for this encouragement.

Melody Authoress said...

This is so encouraging. Thank you.

Courtney said...

Very wise words indeed. Life would be very bland and meaningless, and probably a less compassionate place, without some element of risk. Whether we're talking about safety or anything else, there really are no 100 percent guarantees in life, are there? All we can do is go with our gut, trust in God and move forward. :)

Thanks for these comforting words today.

Jan said...

I've been sensing the call to live and believe "radically". Gathering books to read while on vacation. Been hearing a lot about that book ... need to get "Radical" today!

Becky said...

Yes. My entire being agrees with you. This brings to mind one of my favorite lines from the Narnia series: "Of course he isn't safe! He's not a tame lion; but he is *good*" Oh, that more of His children would grasp that good does not equate with safe...

thehammondfamily said...

wow! thank you!

Hendrick Family said...

Reminded me of this:

"The most often repeated commandment in the Bible is "Do not fear." It's in there over two hundred times. That means a couple of things, if you think about it. It means we are going to be afraid, and it means we shouldn't let fear boss us around. Before I realized we were supposed to fight fear, I thought of fear as a subtle suggestion in our subconscious designed to keep us safe, or more important, keep us from getting humiliated. And I guess it serves that purpose. But fear isn't only a guide to keep us safe; it's also a manipulative emotion that can trick us into living a boring life."

--from Donald Miller's book A Million Miles in a Thousand Years

Amanda Kane said...

Oh friends, I am not sure how much you know about Corrie Ten Boom. I call her my official "mentor-in-a-book." What you just expressed has her written all over it! Thanks for sharing these honest thoughts!

Katie said...

Thank you so much for these words! My husband and I were faced with a big decision just this past weekend and during our deliberating I read this post and was reminded that we had promised ourselves to never live a safe life. It was a timely reminder and we're taking a big leap into an exciting unknown, opening our lives and sharing our new home. Thank you, thank you, thank you for the reminder!!
Katie

Amy said...

AMEN!!! Thank you for this!