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Tuesday is Early Childhood Development day. This week, it was also a day to solve mysteries.
For whatever reason (that I do not understand) lots of people in Haiti have names, nicknames, and other names that they go by - and then their real name might or might not be known and/or used.
It is not uncommon for one person to answer to three names. This is very confusing to the expats who are used to: first name - last name - and only one possible spelling. The spelling of a name changes week to week ... and if I wanted to fully embrace my current culture and fit in I might go by Tara one week, Rachelle another week, spell it Terra sometimes for fun and then another time when asked my name I might just say "T." or maybe Livesay or even some other nickname like "Fifi" and let everyone else figure out what that is all about.
Today a very thin woman walked in. I knew right away that she was not a regular in our program. She was so tall and thin you would not easily forget her. She explained that her friend sent her with her (the friend's) baby because she was too sick to come herself.
We asked the obvious question "who is your friend?"
This is the rest of our conversation:
Tall Girl - Rose Marie Devalier
Me- Rose Marie Devalier? Huh? (not recognized as a name in our program)
Tall Girl - Yes
Me- We have a lady with that last name in pre-natal but her baby is not due for months.
Me- How old is that baby?
Tall Girl- It was born October 1st
Me- What? Okay. What is the Mom's name again?
Tall Girl - Rose Marie
Me- Does she go by any other name?
Tall Girl- I don't know. yes. I think. Maybe.
Me- Okay then - what is the baby's name?
Tall Girl- I don't know. I forget.
Me- You don't know the name of the baby you're caring for? Well, is it a boy or a girl?
(baby is dressed in white and pink frilly clothing)
Tall Girl- long pause ... thinking .. "A little boy"
Paige- So he was born in October?
Tall Girl- No I said he was born in August.
Me- Does the Mom go by the name "Rethly?" (I guessed this because the last name almost matched up right with a Mom named Rethly who had a baby in August.)
Tall Girl- Yes Yes she does.
We weigh the baby. The baby weighs the total wrong weight to be Rethly's baby. If it were her baby it had lost 5 pounds in a couple of weeks.
Me- Still digging through files, taking a wild guess, "Is that baby Judens?"
Tall Girl - (with enthusiasm this time) YES YES --- I FORGOT - YES THAT IS THE NAME OF THE BABY!!
Me- Okay, good ... so, is the mom RoseManie Charles?
Tall Girl- Yes!
(Never mind that the name Charles had never been given.)
At that point we were ten minutes in and searching files frantically trying to figure out who the baby belonged to ... still not exactly sure why the friend gave all goofy information at first ... but it felt like a major victory to identify the baby and figure out who his Mama was. Oh, and the baby was actually born Sept 16 ... details-schmetails.
Basically, the tall girl knew this: She had a baby - in her arms - that someone she is aware of - gave birth to - sometime in the past. What more is there?
We sent the tall girl into class after she told us that the baby was ill and needed to see the Doctor and that she was also pregnant and wanted to join the program. We told her we would see both of them after the lesson.
During class we observed her taking a baby bottle out of her purse for the baby. That was when we also noticed her Bible and her bottle of Barbancourt Rum. Finding that combination of items entertaining, Beth snapped a few photos.
After class John Ackerman saw the baby boy, named Judens, while we did a pregnancy test and made sure that the pregnant mom was not sipping on the Barbancourt. (She said it was not for her, but for a friend.)
If the process of identifying the baby she was caring for was any indicator, I would have to say she'd had a giant glass of rum on her tap-tap ride over.
Case closed.
13 comments:
Thanks! You made me laugh tonight. More funny since it meant to be funny.
That is funny. My mother is from Haiti and she has at least three names/nick names.
I can't imagine. Very funny ... but very sad.
mama of 13
Perhaps you need a new nickname, Nancy Drew.
E, E-run, Erin
Oh my, I would laugh if it wasn't kind of sad.
Kate, or Kathrin or Tinka
Oh my goodness.. so crazy! Good for you guys for solving the mystery! :)
Deja vu. I think I've had that conversation before :)
At Barbancout (a small community near La Digg) I used to keep medical records in alphabetical order. After a few years and probably doing about 5000 consults a year I simply had to give it up since our record keeping was much larger than the size of the clinic room. In addition we never could locate anybody by their name. I quit and began using numbers. Not as personal but easier.
If you don't laugh ... you'll go crazier. So we choose to laugh.
Love,
Fifi
When we were talking to the judge about our case recently they needed to make a "paper" for me so I could go testify. I gave them my name - first and last - but they insisted on having my maiden name too. It didn't matter that it doesn't appear on a single piece of my identification except my birth certificate and marriage certificate... Then, when I went to testify I gave them my name as I would in Canada - first then last, and for the rest of the session they called me Rolling. :) The whole name thing here is nutty. When we do classes we tell them to give us the name they want to see on their diploma and that's what they get called for the rest of the week :)
tara
or is it tera today? ha ha. your best post yet. love, Yogi. or you can call me Ricky. i know, i am a funny guy.
my first experience of this was trying to do payroll one day at the orphanage.I was so confused and convinced that we were paying the wrong people. It was crazy!
At the orphanage where we're adopting, a little girl was brought in. She has a male last name. The manager told the staff that the child was a little boy. So they dressed her like a boy. Called her by her "boy" last name. No matter that they KNEW she is a girl!
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